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This is how you lose her.
You lose her when you forget to remember the little things that mean the world to her: the sincerity in a stranger’s voice during a trip to the grocery store, the delight of finding something lost or forgotten like a sticker from when she was five, the selflessness of a child giving a part of his meal to another, the scent of new books in the store, the surprise short but honest notes she tucks in her journal and others you could only see if you look closely.
You must remember when she forgets.
You lose her when you don’t notice that she notices everything about you: your use of the proper punctuation that tells her continuation rather than finality, your silence when you’re about to ask a question but you think anything you’re about to say to her would be silly, your mindless humming when it is too quiet, your handwriting when you sign your name in blank sheets of paper, your muted laughter when you are trying to be polite, and more and more of what you are, which you don’t even know about yourself, because she pays attention.
She remembers when you forget.
You lose her for every second you make her feel less and less of the beauty that she is. When you make her feel that she is replaceable. She wants to feel cherished. When you make her feel that you are fleeting. She wants you to stay. When you make her feel inadequate. She wants to know that she is enough and she does not need to change for you, nor for anyone else because she is she and she is beautiful, kind and good.
You must learn her.
You must know the reason why she is silent. You must trace her weakest spots. You must write to her. You must remind her that you are there. You must know how long it takes for her to give up. You must be there to hold her when she is about to.
You must love her because many have tried and failed. And she wants to know that she is worthy to be loved, that she is worthy to be kept.
And, this is how you keep her."
I had an appt to get it and chickened out, I've never had kids and my doctor was all about it! then she said it was the same thing as depo, so I aborted mission since everyone I know who did depo shots gained 30-100lbs. Gained 30 on the pill and am having a hard time losing it. however, my friend has had the implant for years (no kids either) and loves it, she looks better than ever and actually lost weight on it.. thoughts?
well your doctor knows you better so if she said it was okay then I think it’s worth the try, you can take it out if you don’t like it. I had very heavy bleeding at first and that is a common thing that happens at first but then they get lighter, shorter or not have many at all so give it sometime, your body needs to adjust to it, I did a lot of research on it, I have the progestin only hormone one because I’m breast-feeding and found it to be best, also I became very emotional, I was feeling very depressed but then it could of been that I had just gave birth, but depressed mood is also very common symptom. now that ive had it for 9 months I feel better, I love that I don’t have to think about taking any pills or getting shots or inserting anything in my vagina, the heavy bleeding has also stopped and I have fewer lighter periods. before I forget on the weight issue, my doctor said weight gain was common most women reported that they gained weight because they felt hunger so if you have good healthy eating habits then you shouldn’t have a problem, I didn’t gain any weight till now that the holidays are here and I’ve been stuffing my face, I do feel hungry all the time lol and with all the sweets around, it’s bad lol well I hope you find my personal experience helpful in making a decision. :)
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